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Tis for Men: How to Maintain the First Date of Online Dating

First DateWhen your relationship with the Chinese girl who you met via online dating site reaches a certain level, you will get down to the meeting up. It’s the first date with her, mate! You should take serious and significant because it directly influence your dating success! Then, how to properly maintain the first date with your online dater so as to leave her a good impression? Below tips can certainly help you!

First of all, get well-prepared for it!

Before the meeting arrives, ask yourself when and where to date. Try to select a location which is comfortable and conducive to communicate. Move dates are popular, but they’re not that appropriate for first date because you’ll both staring at a screen the whole night, without too much interaction. Suppose staring at her from across a table intimidates you, then pick an interactive date. Even though you two have nothing in common, you can at least laugh about your poor skills at P.E..

Secondly, take initiative to pay.

I know men are sensitive about money issue on a date. As a couple, you have enough time to figure out how to split and cover the bill. But for now, take initiative to pick up the check because Chinese women are likely to date generous men.

Thirdly, be confident!

Confidence could be a charm even though you’re not handsome as she expected. No woman wants to date a timid or depressed guy.

Fourthly, well-dressed to impress her.

You don’t have to dress gorgeously, but you should at least take on a tidy and comfortable look. Brush your teeth and put on a shirt that doesn’t look slept in.

Fifthly, don’t be late!

If you want to leave her a good impression, then be on time in the first date. While if your girl showed up fashionably late, don’t be angry and be gracious. Maybe she just doesn’t want to show up before you get there. That’s a thing that women usually do.

Sixthly, ask great questions, smile and be a loyal listener.

Seventhly, catch proper time to compliment her.

Chinese women usually want to take on the best look in front of the men they love. Before meeting you, she might spend a lot of time in making up and dressing, and only wants to show you a nice look. At this very moment, you should take proper time to say some complimentary words. For example, you can say: “Wow, you’re beautiful (sexy, gorgeous, etc.)! What you do like this should greatly please her.

Finally, prove her that chivalry is not dead. Even though she is an independent woman, she still wants a man to protect her from any trouble and risk. Make the first date end warmly and completely by saying goodbye.If you do feel good when staying with her and want to move further, let her know the time for next meeting.

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