Are you one of those people who want to meet Chinese girls online but feel uneasy because of the negative stereotypes attached to them? If you only think about this kind of reasoning prevalent to those who haven’t met many of these women, you will realize how sad it is.
There is nothing more to these negative connotations about the so-called Chinese easy girl but myths. If you meet one online, you have to look at them like how you would treat any other girl from other places around the globe. You have to treat them with respect not only because of where they come from but also because they are women and humans.
The only difference is that it may be easy for you to live your life without constantly looking behind your back if there are strangers who want to attack you because of your race. It may be easy for you to look for dates online because you are not being hounded by too many myths, most of which do not have any bearing.
Busting the Myths
Sexy Chinese girls are cheap
You will often read on the internet, especially in community forums, degrading comments about Chinese women having interracial relationships.
For example, there are lots of Chinese girls date foreign men. It led to taunting about hot Chinese girls being easy and obsessed with luring foreign nationals. The story has gotten out of hand to the point that it will make you wonder if these people believe what they are saying or if they only want to milk the story while it is still a hot topic.
One woman doesn’t represent most Chinese women. And even that one woman may have had something to say since her privacy rights have been violated.
Cute Chinese girls are easy to get
The notion has become widespread that searching about “sexy Chinese babes” will land you with a variety of results with a similar theme – they are easy.
Imagine most Chinese women, including the successful and the new generation, having to face a world that thinks about them poorly.
A question in an online Q&A platform has gained many visitors through the years. The poster asked if many white men think that even the most beautiful women in China are easy or if that is how they think about the local ladies in general.
How will the judgment end when even big-time media companies, like BBC, would post a video content that was supposed to be how not to date a Chinese woman when, in fact, it is about its opposite?
Similar to other women from all over the world, not all Chinese women are easy to get. There may be some, but it is something that is not exclusive to their race or to women.
Dating a Chinese girl is expensive
Sadly, the negative stereotypes hounding the Chinese dating culture led to many people’s belief that these women are after people’s money. Not true.
Not because these girls are looking for love online means that they want to get rich by luring potentially wealthy foreigners. This is unfair considering the many Chinese women who have worked hard to elevate the status of these women.
Before judging Chinese women for being easy, think about the accomplished women from China who best represent what they truly are – confident, educated, and respectful. They also deserve to be treated fairly, for they have worked hard to earn a living and bring back people’s respect for their race.
With the continuing fight of Asians, including Chinese people, against Asian hate from foreigners, it is only apt that people, men and women alike, stop treating these ladies like toys. If you want to date one, do it because you find the girl interesting as a person and not because of the myths you’ve heard about them.
Dating should be fun, and these women have the right to experience it, too, without people constantly adding color to how they act or what they do. You have to treat them with respect, especially if you want to know them on a deeper level – beyond the beautiful faces, beyond the stigma, and beyond the negative stereotypes.
Nobody deserves to be treated and looked down upon like how many view Chinese girls, especially those dating foreign men. Like you, they are looking for friendship, companionship, and love. You have to see them as people who get hurt by insinuations, who feel down whenever being degraded and have been wanting to break free from the stigma by breaking all myths about them.